{"id":81944,"date":"2025-12-04T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-12-04T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/casel.org\/?post_type=blogposts&#038;p=81944"},"modified":"2026-03-31T15:39:36","modified_gmt":"2026-03-31T20:39:36","slug":"4-ways-to-make-your-case-for-adult-social-and-emotional-learning","status":"publish","type":"blogposts","link":"https:\/\/casel.org\/blog\/4-ways-to-make-your-case-for-adult-social-and-emotional-learning\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Ways to Make Your Case for Adult Social and Emotional Learning"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"key-points\"><strong>Key Points<\/strong><\/h2><a class=top href=\"#top\">Back to top<\/a>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>To fully grow SEL skills in students, we must first invest in the adults delivering those lessons.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We can\u2019t expect adults to model regulation, empathy, and responsible decision-making if they aren\u2019t supported in developing those skills themselves.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>To make the case for adult SEL, leverage the data, show what doing nothing would cost, find creative ways to cover costs, and build buy-in by starting small and showing results.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/casel.org\/professional-development\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\" noreferrer noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1900\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/PD-Ad-for-Blog-Posts-1900x534.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-82186\" srcset=\"https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/sites\/1\/.\/PD-Ad-for-Blog-Posts-1900x534.jpg 1900w, https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/sites\/1\/.\/PD-Ad-for-Blog-Posts-640x180.jpg 640w, https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/sites\/1\/.\/PD-Ad-for-Blog-Posts-300x84.jpg 300w, https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/sites\/1\/.\/PD-Ad-for-Blog-Posts-768x216.jpg 768w, https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/sites\/1\/.\/PD-Ad-for-Blog-Posts-1536x432.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/sites\/1\/.\/PD-Ad-for-Blog-Posts.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1900px) 100vw, 1900px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Picture this: Your teachers and afterschool staff are struggling to manage challenging behaviors, student anxiety is at an all-time high, and academic performance is suffering. You know incorporating social and emotional learning (SEL) practices into your daily routine could make a difference, but when you bring up professional development, the response is often the same: &#8220;We just don\u2019t have the budget for that.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&#8217;re not alone. According to a recent <a href=\"https:\/\/www.edweek.org\/leadership\/does-social-emotional-learning-really-work-educators-had-a-lot-to-say\/2025\/01\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">EdWeek Research Center<\/a> survey, 36 percent of educators identified lack of funding and resources as the primary barrier to implementing SEL in their schools. Yet we&#8217;ve become so fixated on finding the right SEL curriculum or program that we&#8217;ve overlooked the most powerful SEL tool we already have: ourselves. For decades, we&#8217;ve been so focused on SEL for kids that we&#8217;ve skipped a step. <strong><em>It&#8217;s time we pause\u2014and rewind.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/insta.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-81947\" style=\"width:461px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"adult-sel-is-the-missing-link\"><strong>Adult SEL Is the Missing Link<\/strong><\/h2><a class=top href=\"#top\">Back to top<\/a>\n\n\n\n<p>To fully grow SEL skills in students, we must first invest in the adults delivering those lessons. And this isn&#8217;t just observation\u2014our participation in a <a href=\"https:\/\/wingsforkids.org\/sel\/approach\/program-evidence\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">randomized control trial<\/a> (RCT) has the data to prove it. The RCT confirmed adult social-emotional skills are essential to delivering on measurable outcomes for kids. Frontline staff need a broad range of capabilities: behavior management, problem-solving, child engagement, and sensitivity to group dynamics. <strong>And, what we learned from this research directly enhanced how we develop our staff and reinforced what we&#8217;ve always known: adults are the missing link.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Last fall, our team facilitated a training with afterschool staff who felt overwhelmed and frustrated. One educator said, <em>&#8220;I feel like I\u2019m supposed to be everything to everyone\u2014and I don\u2019t have the tools to manage my own stress, let alone teach kids how to manage theirs.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her words cut straight to the heart of what schools and programs across the country still struggle to recognize<em>\u2014<\/em>strong adult social and emotional skills (like emotional regulation) are the foundation for <em>everything else.<\/em> We paused, refocused, and watched the group transform\u2014moving from overwhelmed to empowered as they identified their stress patterns, built personalized regulation toolkits, and practiced new communication approaches. One month later, that same educator reported fewer outbursts in her group and said, <em>&#8220;The biggest change was actually me. Once I was able to calm down, the kids followed.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p><em>The biggest change was actually me. Once I was able to calm down, the kids followed.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s the impact adult SEL training and professional development can have. But how do we convince others that SEL for adults isn\u2019t extra\u2014it\u2019s essential? Here are four ways to make your case for adult social and emotional learning:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"1-make-a-strong-case-with-data\"><strong>1. Make a Strong Case With Data<\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/h2><a class=top href=\"#top\">Back to top<\/a>\n\n\n\n<p>In an ideal world, you\u2019d have time to gather robust data like attendance and behavior trends, but starting small\u2014with accessible information and a few daily observations\u2014can lead to meaningful insights that you can use to build your case:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Discipline Data:<\/strong> &#8220;Last month alone, we had 25 referrals related to emotional outbursts or peer conflict.&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Attendance Patterns:<\/strong> &#8220;We have three to four students regularly missing the first period\u2014often due to anxiety or social concerns.&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Classroom Observations:<\/strong> &#8220;In most classrooms, the first 10 to 15 minutes are spent managing emotional needs.&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Parent Concerns:<\/strong>&nbsp; &#8220;In the past two weeks, I&#8217;ve had 12 parent conversations, and 9 of them centered around their children&#8217;s anxiety or social challenges at school.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"2-show-the-cost-of-doing-nothing\"><strong>2. Show the Cost of Doing Nothing<\/strong><\/h2><a class=top href=\"#top\">Back to top<\/a>\n\n\n\n<p>Reactive support is expensive. You might be spending thousands each year on crisis response.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;Our counselor spends 15 hours per week managing student emotional crises. That\u2019s $12,000\/year in reactive care. What if teachers had tools to prevent 30 percent of those issues?&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>Reactive support is expensive. <\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"3-identify-creative-ways-to-cover-costs\"><strong>3. Identify Creative Ways to Cover Costs<\/strong><\/h2><a class=top href=\"#top\">Back to top<\/a>\n\n\n\n<p>Explore multiple options to fund professional development for your team.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ed.gov\/grants-and-programs\/grants-birth-grade-12\/safe-and-supportive-schools\/school-climate-transformation-grant-state-educational-agency-grants-program\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">State School Climate Grants<\/a>, local community foundations, and partnerships with neighboring districts can reduce costs and increase collaboration.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Example: &#8220;Three local districts pooled funds for joint SEL PD, cutting costs by 65 percent.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/one-on-one-bonds.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-81948\" style=\"width:443px;height:auto\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"4-start-small-show-results-build-buy-in\"><strong>4. Start Small. Show Results. Build Buy-In<\/strong><\/h2><a class=top href=\"#top\">Back to top<\/a>\n\n\n\n<p>You don\u2019t need a full-scale rollout on day one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Pilot Idea<\/strong><strong>.<\/strong> &#8220;Let\u2019s start with the 6th-grade team and track behavior and engagement for 12 weeks.&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Propose Phased Implementation.<\/strong> For example:\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><span style=\"color: initial;\">Phase 1&nbsp;: Train 6th-grade team<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><span style=\"color: initial;\">Phase 2 (Spring 2026): Expand to all middle school staff<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Phase 3 (2026-27): Full K-12 implementation<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Teacher Leader Model.<\/strong> Train veteran staff as SEL coaches to reduce reliance on external trainers over time.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>A few weeks after a training session, one teacher shared, &#8220;I didn\u2019t think one training could make such a difference, but it gave me a chance to reflect and reset. I\u2019m showing up differently\u2014and so are my students.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" src=\"https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/flying_final.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-81949\" style=\"width:482px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/sites\/1\/.\/flying_final.jpg 800w, https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/sites\/1\/.\/flying_final-640x426.jpg 640w, https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/sites\/1\/.\/flying_final-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/casel.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com\/sites\/1\/.\/flying_final-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"the-bottom-line-adult-sel-is-a-prerequisite-not-a-perk\"><strong>The Bottom Line: Adult SEL Is a Prerequisite, Not a Perk<\/strong><\/h2><a class=top href=\"#top\">Back to top<\/a>\n\n\n\n<p>We can\u2019t expect adults to model regulation, empathy, and responsible decision-making if they aren\u2019t supported in developing those skills themselves. Investing in adult SEL isn\u2019t about adding something new\u2014it\u2019s about unlocking the potential of what\u2019s already there: the people leading kids every day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Start small. Share stories. Gather data. And don\u2019t stop making the case. Because when the adults grow, so do the kids.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>The views in this blog are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of CASEL.<\/em><em><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a><\/a><em>Before becoming CEO in October 2024, <strong>Julia Rugg <\/strong>spent many years spearheading WINGS\u2019 expansion efforts across the southeast while working alongside the senior team to ensure the WINGS model was replicated with fidelity and quality. Since her start in 2011, she continues to evaluate current and future growth opportunities for WINGS and develops partner relationships and projects. Julia\u2019s past experiences range from nonprofit to small business industries and include work as a federal government attorney. <\/em><em><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Related Posts<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/casel.org\/blog\/we-teach-who-we-are-not-just-what-we-know-what-top-researchers-had-to-say-about-adult-sel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u201cWe teach who we are, not just what we know.\u201d What Top Researchers Had to Say About Adult SEL<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/casel.org\/blog\/in-olympia-we-shifted-gears-to-focus-on-adults\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">In Olympia, We Shifted Gears to Focus on Adults<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/casel.org\/blog\/in-support-of-students-start-with-adults-four-part-webinar-series-part-1-recap\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">In Support of Students, Start with Adults: Four-Part Webinar Series &#8211; Part 1 Recap<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"write-for-us\"><strong>Write for Us<\/strong><\/h2><a class=top href=\"#top\">Back to top<\/a>\n\n\n\n<p>Are you interested in writing for CASEL\u2019s blog, <em>Constellations<\/em>? <a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/document\/d\/1zSZFveKA8xsmlCADpfDP8t-y9emN0qswHQh1MnfmqBI\/edit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Learn more<\/a> about what we\u2019re looking for and how to pitch your idea!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Key Points Back to top Picture this: Your teachers and afterschool staff are struggling to manage challenging behaviors, student anxiety is at an all-time high, and academic performance is suffering. 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